I got a two mails recently asking why I do so many files for girls recently, and when I do some gay files again. Or just files for men.
Well… there will be new files. There are new gender neutral files.
It’s also a question of feedback though. I don’t know if it’s because the women are more active or willing to write feedback. But I know that when I post a file for women I often have a few pieces of feedback within 24 hours. The difference is massive, something like 10 to 1. My last for women file is one week old at this point and has 8 comments. My last dedicated gay file is 8 month old and has one comment (just asking for more).
And now put yourself in my position. Which files would you produce more? The ones where you get a lot of feedback, which also often inspires you and gives you new ideas? Or the files that are answered with complete silence?
Exactly. If you get one line of feedback in 8 month, it doesn’t feel like anybody really wants this kind of file.
And then there is the little fact that the feedback – especially “real” feedback (giving your ideas, experience, thoughts, ect.) – very often inspires new file ideas.
So let’s turn this around. You want files? Inspire me. Or at least let me know what you want.
Comment to this thread and give me a better idea what you want… and I’m game.
Someone brought up the thought that I’m a lot tamer to little boys than I am to little girls.
And I wonder: Is it true?
True, I do have more female humiliation files. But then that’s the feedback again. If you get a lot of feedback, asking for something more extreme, you push it. If you don’t, you don’t.
What do you think?
I’m really curious how my listeners (of both genders) perceive it.